The thrifty wedding guest
Tuesday 18 June 2019Dress Ghost £165, coat £60, trilby, bag and shoes, Jane's own - budget blown! |
Ahh...wedding season looms, this is not necessarily the best news a WOACA has ever had, as according to a recent survey by the M&S Bank, the average outfit spend alone of a wedding guest in the UK this summer is expected to be £120 (never mind the gifts, travel, hotel room...). Beryl and Jane discover ways to keep the costs down as they head for their wardrobes and the high street with this sum firmly in mind.
WEAR SOMETHING YOU ALREADY OWN
Kimono One Hundred Stars £79, trousers £135 reduced from £200, 100 Per Cent Lino, silk top £20 reduced from £99, both The White House Designer Sale. Flat mules £16.99 TK Maxx, basket £30 Luna |
Jane and Beryl realise you might well be thinking 'well, that's a bit rich coming from those two spendthrifts,' but bear with, bear with. It's all too easy to end up going to a wedding in something you do not feel entirely comfortable in. Clothes in your existing wardrobe not bought in a crisis are more likely to reflect your real persona. There is probably something perfectly lovely lurking in your closet as we speak that you could wear and makes you feel great.
ADD TO SOMETHING
ALREADY IN YOUR WARDROBE
Total spent £40
This floral dress has lurked largely unworn in our Bezza's collection. Its crime? Too wedding-y. Yes Beryl knows that this sounds ridiculous, but often clothes bought for nuptials are one trick ponies, they are just too syrupy for life ever after.
Dress £80 bag £30 and shoes £40 all Monsoon |
hat on band £37.50 Monsoon |
Meanwhile, Debenhams you might think must be the home of a reasonably priced frock for the big day, but pickings are, once again, slim. The only dress that Beryl actively covets is this Jasper Conran £69, orange and pink fit and flare. She has a pair of Karen Millen high orange stilettos and an orange clutch bag. This means she would have £50 to spend on a on a fru-fru hair-clip. Has she mentioned that she is fascinator-phobic, preferring instead a 1950s style hat-band?
TK MAXX OPTION
Total spend £35
Mindful of the budget Jane and Beryl are in TK Maxx, where they find this Nanette Lepore shirtdress for £24. The matching espadrilles are £11. Jane asked Beryl if she is going to buy this, as the yellow and pink thing is packing just the sort of joie de vivre they seek. Sadly, the top pulls a hint across her ta-tas, (damnation to her breasticals) but she lets Jane think she is showing admirable shopping self-control.
Restraint goes out the window however when this frock crazed woman hits the Great Western Outlet in Swindon. Beryl is out there on her own, without her carer (otherwise known as Jane) and this is never a good idea. She quickly bags a shirtdress from Mint Velvet reduced to £75 from £119, which she can wear to the wedding with her Karen Millen orange stilettos and and orange clutch from John Lewis. Sorry Beryl, what wedding is this? Beryl seems to have forgotten that she not actually been invited to a wedding this year.
THE PRE-LOVED OPTION
Total spend £117
Phase Eight dress £75, Hobbs white jacket (charity shop) £12 shoes (not bought for the wedding £30, LK Bennett sample sale) |
Beryl and Jane love preloved clothes for all the right reasons. They are kinder to the environment and the purse, and you might find something really special that you would not splash out on new. If you think you could not possibly wear something second hand to a wedding, you need to get with the Extinction Rebellion programme. Even brides wear preloved wedding dresses these days. Here is Beryl attending her lovely friend Veronique's wedding in Minchinhampton last summer...
...and here is Jane in a jacket from Top Shop via the Mind charity shop: £15 (and she has the trousers to the suit too).
THE ONE-OFF SALE OPTION
Total spend: £40
Dress £40 |
Every now and then there are one-off sales up and down the country and Jane and Beryl are particularly lucky to have one such, the White House Designer Sale, twice a year. Here they stock up on fab clothes at a fraction of their usual prices. This green dress could grace many an occasion this summer including a wedding.
THE RAID THE TEEN SHOP OTION
Total spend £56
Headband £4.99, top £8.99, jacket £34.99, trousers £14.99 all H&M |
Beryl and Jane are not really suggesting that you buy the whole darn thing from H&M, but this was one of the very few high street stores they visit where they can come comfortably in on budget. They would however cheerfully pair the gorgeous floaty £15 chiffon trousers with some better quality items from their own wardrobes. Beryl is chary of cheap tailoring and would rather buy second hand to get a great cut and fabric in a jacket.
PSST! Jane and Beryl have found a great source of head gear. In a small shopping arcade in Bosham, near Portsmouth, there are some really unusual, reasonably priced (£40-£120) pieces.
Find Isabella Josie at www.isabellajosie.com.
Next Week: Summer Coats
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